I have read your e-book on The Women Men Admire. Loved it. I have had so much attention in the last three months then I have my entire life. I have men hitting on me everywhere I go now and it’s almost over whelming. I’m now feeling like the guy in the picture and trying to figure out ways to let them down easy. Funny… now I get the phone calls and texts and I am ignoring them… That sounds bad but really I’m not stuck up or rude just being more particular in who I want to date. I just finally got real with myself and what I want and don’t and started taking better care of me. My clothes are not overly dressy, casual, sexy kind of appeal now and my hair is always done and keeping it long again and make up just a touch to highlight my features whenever I’m out of the house. I smile all the time even when I’m driving. These simple things have opened up a lot of options for me. The funniest part of it all… I’m 41 and I have yet to date a man over 33 in the last 3 months since reading the book. I never dated younger men and now I love it and I have more in common with them then men my age. Crazy… never thought I would! I’m really loving my life for the first time in years even as a single mother of two great kids. My ex is even taking notice of the change. That was the best part… Now he’s being a lot nicer and wanting more time with the kids. I love it!

Thanks!

Hi Bob,

Thanks for all of the advice. I am married now. Here is the link to the dance we did at our wedding.

What a great book , difficult to put down !

I am finding it inspiring , allowing me insight into my own relationship issues and confidence to listen to my heart first.

The graphic description ( page 73) about a man’s heart is amazing, it makes it so much easier for me to understand a man’s responses.

Thank you Bob

Hi Bob

Doesn’t matter even if this goes as one of the most unnoticed feedback mails I know very less number you must be going through personally but TRUST ME THAT REALLY DOES NOT MATTER ,because what was most important for me you’ve given me that “the love of my life”
It’s a pity that people simply do not understand what they are being told,I completely agree the insight of a man into what factors are responsible behind taking a relationship far are shallow in comparison to woman so any day it is a better idea to empower/guide a woman in a realtionship ,
obviously it gives them the charge of the relatuonship and not the responsibility, infact it makes their man more responsible
so it’s not about changing for someone it’s about changing things your way,thanks bob thanks so much for sharing what was the best for us
these are amongst the most genuine and effective learnings (as far as a relationships are considered) i’ve come across

I don’t know if you will get this email, but I wanted to express my comment about your techniques in “The Woman Men Adore”. I read that book before I started dating 2 years ago. I was 20 years old, and I had never been with anyone. I wanted to learn, however, and so I purchased your book. What you revealed at the time sounded a bit simple. But I did wonder if you were right. I mean, I had seen so many of my other experienced friends and how they dealt with their men. Their relationships failed because they didn’t know how to communicate their feelings to their men. They argued, they nagged, they yelled. Their men disrespected them as a result, but because my friends didn’t ever show respect back. And just to prove this point, when I started dating, I did make mistakes anyway so I could see the result. I wasn’t surprised. There wasn’t anything good that came out of those mistakes. It further proved to me that perhaps your approach would be dead on. Today, I’m with someone that loves me and respects me. We’ve had our ups and downs, but I have applied your techniques, and let me just say: they WORK. We actually had a conflict not so long ago over behavior that I felt was inappropriate. I’m usually the type of person that does get angry and argumentative, but when I approached him, I was so calm, so collected. I spoke to him softly yet firm. I told him that I didn’t find his behavior appropriate. I kept it short and simple. He asked me why, so I gave him reasons why it wasn’t appropriate. Again, I kept it brief, and I used “I” statements. I never blamed him or said anything inappropriate. I simply expressed to him how his actions made me feel. He was quiet and ATTENTIVE to everything I said. He was so hurt after I was done, I could tell. It was just like how you said in the book. The few things I said were LOUDER and more HURTFUL than if I would’ve yelled and screamed and nagged. He asked me, “What can I do so the next time I don’t hurt you the way I hurt you tonight?” He really wanted to make me feel better, he wanted to please me. It was exactly how you had described in your book. I have followed everything you’ve mentioned in the book to the letter. Women who question your techniques without trying them are insane. They want to keep doing the same thing over and over, even though it hasn’t yielded results. They need to try your techniques before they speak, because it really is empowering. It really is so much easier to influence a man in this way than by arguing! Anyway, I guess this is just my way of thanking you. Your points are important and relevant. Women need to get back to the basics and learn to be REAL women. Your book does help with that!

I read it in 1 h but was thinking about it whole day, great job! 🙂

I admire your work and will appreciate any other tips.

Kind regards, greetings from Poland

I would like to write short thank you for ebook I purchased from Bob.

Despite tons of books i ve read about subject on relationships,Bob’s was first to explain faults in my behaviour  I was not aware of  , which are  right in the first paragraph! charming,funny ,popular but.. you can come that close only attitude.ITS ME. I ve had to read this 5x to get to the real understanding and suddenly there was big NEWSFLASH 

Overall very happy  I bought this book ,  help came just when I need it, so I ll learn how  to keep long term relationship with man.

 lots of thanks

I have thoroughly enjoyed reading the book once,( with your help), I was able to download it. I review it daily and although my friend is away for three more months, six in total, I have copied to paper some of the things I want to work on until his return. I have learned some new thinking and wish I had known them in my marriage of 57 years before my husbands death…..life would have been much easier for him, actually for both of us and I don’t want to repeat the same mistakes in the future. I am seventy seven and would love another chance at marriage but not sure it will happen. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with all the women who so desperately need it.

Respectfully.

The book was very insightful. I especially benefited from the “impulse” vs. “feelings” and have put that into practice already. What a big difference. Now, my impulses are manageable and my feelings are more accessible. I can trust my feelings and just “wait out” my impulses. It has also helped with emotional eating I sometimes do when I feel impulses. Now, I just wait it out and then when it calms down I can feel. What a gift you have given me. I want to learn more.

So now I am in a situation where I am wrting to someone in the states, someone it seems who is ready for true love to enter his life, so I can put to work these valuable lessons and be totally unafraid to open up my heart and give this man the assurance he needs and the love I crave for. Watch this space—-

With great respect

Thanks for your email…

I’m busy working through your book…on page 65 now. And I am so excited…it’s actually the first time that I read something about relationships that’s making sense to me. I can’t wait to finish it and to start practicing all my new found information. I know this book is going to change my life. I already noticed a lot of things that I have done wrong in past relationships…I’m not going to make the same mistakes again.

Thanks for a wonderful book.

Regards

Within 24 hours the book has impacted my relationship. My boyfriend is a sweet man but he has been very absorbed in the business that he’s building with his two best friends (a successful bar and restaurant) and I have been feeling really resentful of all the time apart. It’s made me really difficult to be around and I can feel him getting more and more distant. I read the eBook this weekend and last night when he asked me (again) what was wrong I simply told him I “felt lonely”. He instantly warmed and and I could feel my mood change. After just 20 minutes of conversation and connection (completely unrelated to feelings…just talking about random things) I felt much more loving toward him. He said “It’s good to see you smile…its been days”. Ordinarily I would have gone into a long discussion about how he was away too much and we both would have ended up feeling awful about ourselves and the situation. I am so grateful that such a simple piece of straightforward advice made it so easy to put aside my anger and find love so easily.

Thank you.
Your book is a blessing.

I’m a very attractive woman, and now understand that I have been too considerate when it comes to relationships and I would say more generally, and this hasn’t been valued by either of the men concerned. Having now read your book twice!!! I will certainly be taking my time to firstly; listen to my heart more, dare I say become a little ‘selfish’ and also be less impulsive in future. So thanks again for your insightful book and I’ll let you know how I get on.

Kind regards,

Late bloomers 

My daughter was a late bloomer. At 24 she is finally experiencing the joys and the pain of her first emotional relationships with men. When I recently found your web site and copied her on your thoughtful insights into why men say and do the things they do, I expected her to laugh it off. Instead she has been riveted to each email I forward and eventually downloaded the book.

Here is the thing I wanted to say. At 54, I’ve made my mistakes, had my once in a lifetime love, and can testify to the wisdom I see in your words. I only wish I had been priveledged to read this stuff first, as my daughter is doing. I would have spent alot fewer sleepless nights with a box of kleenex if I had. 

Bravo for letting secrets out of the bag that our grandmothers should have shared and didn’t.

Thank you for the message, I would love to receive the weekly tips and insights. I must compliment you on an excellent book, I have already recommended it to several of my friends. Its absolutely great, and actually very practical to use.

Thankyou for your response and excellent service. I have received everything, am in the process of reading and digesting it and am highly impressed with what I have read so far. The main book is superb and one of the most impressive things about them all is the clarity, directness and simplicity with which they are written and the concepts conveyed. I couldn’t have asked for better. I’ve had so many eproducts through the net that have been so much superfluous verbage, I’ve got sick of ploughing through it all (not necessarily on the same subject, but also some related topics), sometimes so much so that the meaning has become lost or obscured in the maze! These are a joy to behold and to read. An excellent investment! Thankyou again. Can’t wait for my free telephone session(s), (once I’ve been through everything)!
Compliments to Bob Grant please.

LOVE the e-book

Bob, your book on The Women Men Adore is fantastic. I read it in one weekend, underlined tons of pointers, and will be referring to it regularly. I have been divorced/single for about three years and just started to date a few months ago (I took as long as I needed to process and heal, forgive and be whole, so I’m ready to risk trusting again, and my joy has no sad residue behind my eyes)…I just want to thank you for sharing the information in a format that reaches anyone who wants it. I’m happy to say I’ve intuitively acted in many of the optimal ways you describe, but I’m most happy to have a more understanding approach towards why and how men and women do think so differently, and how to utilize this information to everyone’s benefit in a relationship (or flirtationship!).

I also really appreciated the validation (yes, I’m an extrovert) regarding abusive and addictive personalities – this was the man I was married to for almost 12 years. I tried, so much, but I was the only one who changed – when I asked him if he wanted to save the marriage, his reply was, “Honestly, I don’t think it’s going to work.” At least I understood how to translate it: “I don’t want to do the work required.” That saved me!

All the best, and keep those emails coming,

I am in a committed relationship with a great guy, but things are quite the way I’d like them to be…yet. But I realize I have trained my guy by giving too much, to act just like he does and I need to refocus on myself and see what happens.

Thanks so much,